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There are two types of people in this world: an introvert and an
extrovert. However, an amalgamation (sort of) of these terms would
produce the third type of person; an outgoing extrovert.
You may not know it, but they exist. They are those who find solace
being alone but can still enjoy a great bonding time with friends.
How could we know you are one?
1. First and foremost, you don’t know (or at least you don’t accept) that you are one
It is hard to personally decipher your stand. You cannot say you are an introvert, but you know you are not an extrovert either. It is in these
times that you realize you are in between, and once you do, it is easy to
understand why you tend to feel different on certain things.
2. You are not really an anti-social, you only choose your friends.
An outgoing extrovert doesn’t mingle with everyone in the room. He
scrutinizes the people and selects only those that click. He doesn’t
usually stay on one corner and read a book, although he can, but he has
that mysterious ability of being able to become the life of a party. An
unusual mix indeed.
3. You love some alone time every now and then but not being vacated
Sure, a socially inept person may stay in his room, play computer games,
read a book or at least dig some old photos alone. Yet outgoing
extroverts would not want to have the same daily routine. They know that
they should not be stuck doing nothing or they’ll go crazy. They go alone
but they make it meaningful.
4. You probably would go out with a lady, not with a girl
In a crowd of crazy and beautiful girls, an outgoing introvert would
rather dig deep to find the most reserved and simple woman. Women who
still like to party and have nonsensical fun are often dubbed as girls,
yet outgoing extroverts focus on ladies; those who think ahead towards
their future.
5. You love to have fun, but focuses on the better things
Everyone loves to have fun. Who doesn’t? Yet outgoing extroverts assure
that they don’t let go of the things that matter. Today may be euphoric
and all, yet it may be different from tomorrow. They always think that.
Question, I was a bit confused with difference between an outgoing introvert and an outgoing extrovert in this article. When "outgoing extrovert" was mentioned in the article, was it supposed to be "outgoing introvert?"
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